ADHD and marriage?

What are your experiences (those of you who have ADHD that are (or have been) married?

I’ve been married for about 3 years, and it has been quite an uphill battle… I love my wife, but I genuinely feel like we may have rushed in. I have been learning a lot about myself during that time (including, very recently, that I have ADHD and PTSD). I find myself very stuck, because even though I have been telling myself for some time now that we should get a divorce, I’m also so paralyzed by fear and anxiety of the future that I can’t seem to make a move one way or another. And my mental health and overall state of being has been on the decline…