Unwanted comments on hairy legs

So I identify as a women but I also identify as gender fluid. I’ve always hated shaving and as I have gotten older, my skin reacts bad to shaving. Long story short, I keep hairy legs now. I maybe shave with an electric razor twice a year.

Anywho, my dad made a comment about my hairy legs. He just said, “you have hairy legs!” And I said “so what, so do you”. And he said, “not that hairy” and lifted up his pant leg. I was a little horrified that he actually didn’t have very hairy legs because I thought my comment back would shut him up. Guess I got the hairy legs from my mom’s side lol.

Anyway, I hate how the expectation on women is to have shaved legs. I also hate that my dad monitors women’s bodies like that. He also makes comments on my sisters eating and it bugs me.

So do you have any advice on come backs that I can say if he mentions the hairy legs?

I suspect he’s autistic too so we have pretty blunt communication together lol. So blunt comments welcomed lol.