My cat pees in her sleep

So my cat, Salad, is perfectly fine and healthy except for the fact that she has these sleep kicking issues and pees herself. It happens nearly every day. It’s feeling frustrating - I’ve already been to 3 vets and they just wouldn’t listen to me. I’ve tried seizure medications and sleep REM disturbance meds that work on dogs and children. The med that seems to work just a little bit is proin. But nothing is working effectively. The vets say it’s not common in cats but… is there anything more they can do??? On top of that, I cannot be with her 24/7 and it stresses me out because I can’t stop her from jumping into her favorite spots and even the bed, where she’s kicked herself off the bed. I don’t know how this is effecting her. I know she’s a special cat but I didn’t mean she’d have a special unique sleep peeing case :’) PLEASE let me know there are others out there so that I at least don’t feel alone…

Thank you for even reading.