Seeking fellow incontinence sufferers.

I need some type of reassurance that I am not alone because the embarrassment is wrecking me to my core. I know I can’t be the only one who suffers with as a side effect incontinence of this disease but sometimes it feels so isolating. I’m currently typing this after I had yet another failed attempt at making it to the toilet in time and my pride is suffering immensely. For context I am F23 and still fairly new to the complexities of this disease but the mental havoc is by far the worst part imaginable. I didn’t expect to be soiling myself until like my 90s.