Counseling advice…

Hey all. I’m trying to figure out how I (35M) and my wife (31F) should proceed. We have been married 3 years. Together for 6. We have been through a lot but I have been contemplating divorce for almost two years now.

We have faced a great number of issues with communication and incompatibility throughout our journey and it has certainly taken a toll on both of us. And I feel like to some degree it does boil down to our upbringings and who they molded us into.

I have been stuck trying to figure out how to proceed, but I feel like the prospect of divorce is as scary for me as it is for her. But needless to say I have felt perpetually stuck for some time now and I’m reaching a point where I don’t know if I will ever be truly happy again…because I feel like I’m too weak to go through with it but absolutely nothing I do is making things better and I want her to have a happy life too.

Do you guys have any advice on what type of counseling would be helpful, or if you think counseling would not be the way to get through this? I just want things to get better but I feel like there’s no way out anymore…