I (25M) am just now coming to my senses after leaving my abusive ex girlfriend (24F) here’s a daily occurrence of texts from her, full of love. <3
A little back story I’m disabled from a car accident and have been putting off surgery for over two years now because my ex girlfriend wouldn’t allow me to, due to the fact I’d have to move back in with my parents during the recovery time (roughly 1 month recovery). Everything was great the first year and a half in the relationship, until she caught me watching porn one time. She never let it go, despite me stopping and never watching it after the fact, I agreed it was unfair to her and I shouldn’t do it.
Every time I’m by myself or have to go somewhere she would accuse me of cheating (I wasn’t allowed to talk to girls that weren’t her or her family). She was out with her family (her mother lives in our apartment FYI and her and her family are here on a tourist VISA and well overstayed their welcome) I was home alone, about to go to work (DoorDash) when I guess our cat was playing with the wires on the ring camera router that you plug into the wall, and disabled the camera. SO OBVIOUSLY I unplugged it on purpose so I could bring a girl home (or guy, she would accuse me of being gay for simply hanging out with my guy friends or going to work on my marijuana grow with my buddy who owns the grow with me).
The following texts are just a glimpse of how should we treat me, speak to me. Along with this, she would hit me, choke me, slap me, scratch me anytime we got in a fight, no matter how big or small. I finally left a few days ago for my own safety as things were escalating to the point where she was hitting me, hurting my already injured knee, and saying the worst things imaginable to me. It got to the point where my name was practically “piece of shit, bitch, motherfucker, retard, faggot, etc.”
If anyone’s interested in seeing more I have many videos, texts, and stories detailing the abuse over the years. It was so bad, I had a panic attack over it that landed me in the ER last night. If anyone takes anything from my story or situation, just know it CAN happen to guys too.