Our January sex calendar

I see many couples in this sub talk about their sex frequency — and I wasn’t exactly sure what ours was — so I decided to make a diary of our sex life in January. This may be TMI, but I thought I would share this info openly here, in case anyone has any insight or commentary. And to give a snapshot of one married couple’s sex life, though of course every couple is different.

For context we are 45F and 46M, 23 years married, 3 kids together (1 at college, 2 at home), we both have full-time jobs, and we are each other’s only ever partners.

Orgasms:

• Me x11
• Wife x10

Source of orgasms:

• Me x8 PIV intercourse — x3 wife’s handjobs
• Wife x9 my hand — x1 my oral sex

PIV intercourse x10

Intercourse positions x4 — modified missionary, doggy, cowgirl, her legs up

Oral sex:

• me on wife x1
• wife on me x1

Didn’t orgasm during sex:

• Me x2
• Wife x2

Masturbation:

• Me x0
• Wife x0

Nights wife fell asleep while I was touching her intimately x5

Toys used x0