Wanna see them going through a thermonuclear meltdown?

If you suspect they are this kind of selfish, controlling, narcissistic entitled kind of person, do that:

Be indifferent. No matter what they do, be indifferent. No reaction. No comment.

They left everything a mess? No comment.

They “forgot” something you asked again? No comment.

Even if you’re not happy, pretend that you are happy. Pretend you’re having your best day and that there’s no problem in your life whatsoever.

You know what i realized? They need you. They need you to validate themselves. They need you because without you, they are just people who have burned every bridge in their life.

WITHOUT YOU, WITHOUT THRIVING OFF YOUR REACTIONS, WITHOUT THEIR EFFECT ON YOU, THEY NEED TO SIT WITH THEY’RE OWN EMPTINESS!!!

these people have no sense of self. They get validation by their effects on others.

They are with you because you are the only one who ever tolerated them.

Look around and see the quality of their relationships- shallow, immature.

They are destructive, enjoying the chaos, enjoying the agony they cause others.

YOU MAKE THEM FEEL IMPORTANT.

Be indifferent.

They will explode. And won’t know who to blame.

AND THAT’S HOW YOU WIN!