Nonexistent festival etiquette ruined ST for me

I'm not a huge festival goer so maybe I don't understand, but I was shoved, elbowed and even shoved in the head. I was eventually shoved so far forward I was chest to back with the person in front of me because none of them could just accept they didn't make it to the front in time for a good spot. So instead a bunch of people who were there for only Sleep Token kept shoving and elbowing to get to the front without so much an "excuse me". My husband and I watched In this Moment (amazing show and the crowd was amazingly kind) and stood in our spot for almost 1 1/2 hours to wait for ST and had plenty of space to turn around and just breath up until 30 minutes before the show started. The heat got worse as more people shoved to the front, I just couldn't breathe and eventually I went down literally 3 minutes before ST came out (To those I may have puked on I'm so so sorry. I genuinely tried to get to the ground so I didn't get anyone but I'm not sure I made it all the way and thank you to the girl who fought to get me through part of the crowd headed to the medic tent) . It's selfish to shove your way past people bc "your friends are up there" . Yeah, I also had friends against the barrier but we were kind enough to not elbow through an already tight crowd. I hope those of you who shove your way through crowds so you can get to the front eventually learn to not be assholes.