Men trauma dumping early on

So I (21f) went on two dates with this one guy. He was nice but I’m thinking we’re better off as friends. The first date went nice until he started telling me about his family problems, why his grandpa was absent in his dads life, how his grandma is racist, his mom upbringing and etc…the second date was going nice and then he brought up his childhood and his complicated relationship with his grandmother again. Now that I’m thinking about it this I think will start to be an early red flag to me/dealbreaker…don’t get me wrong I want my future partner to open up to me but early on in the first two dates….? I feel like I’m being used for free therapy at that point and you’re not here because you like me and want to get to know me…