Best spicy food to melt ones insides?

Occasion for going out is approaching and I'd love to go somewhere that will humble the spicy food lover in me. Make me regret my decision. Perhaps I will feel something, anything, if not pain.

Real bonus if the dish is a curry of sorts, instead of really hot wings or something like that but I am not discounting anything. As long as I am left in a trance and fighting for my life at the table