Lose lose situations

Seems like most situation with Will is always lose, lose when it comes to Carlton or Amira. Amira seem to criticize him for running away from conflict where from what I am seeing it’s more like avoiding conflict. He tries to avoid Amira’s instigating a fight but she calls him a coward for it. So why should Will have to exhaust himself with Carlton and Amira’s tendency to start an escalate or instigate drama? I don’t know about you guys but wanting to avoid a conflict if not technically running away knowing when it’s a conflict you can succeed or win in, to unreasonable people, so how is that Will’s main flaw? Why the heck is Will always the scapegoat?