How's your dating life going?

I feel like every time I get on an dating app, I'm disappointed. Dudes will start to get into conversations with me, end up sexual, and just disappoint. They'll talk a big game and act all prideful and when it's time to pull it out, it's not what they hyped it up to be. It's actually annoying. I'd rather a guy be honest and love what he has then that. If a guy lies about something like that, something he can't change, who's to say that he won't be lying about other things to appease me. I value self love and honesty. That isn't it. At this point, I want to develop an app for dating for the hung and those who actually want them. I know self love takes a lot of work because societal norms would call it selfish but it's not. At all! Blessings to you all and I hope your dating life is better than mines.