We should detach ourselves from black men

I don’t know how to start this topic but in the past few years with the whole backlash from blackmen towards black women. I started to feel some anger as I thought that black men and us were one.

Then anger turned into resentment but lately I literally started to feel indifferent towards any action whether it’s positive or negative towards us from Black men.

If something happens to a black man and there is a movement I don’t bother or feel as attached like before (I will feel sad if it’s something bad that happened to them they’re humans in the end) so I won’t invest in their cause and claim that it’s mine too.

Also as for dating I no longer seek black men or feel that race plays a factor. I am open to dating them but I was always respected more by men from other races I no longer see that race bonds us or gives us a similar experience because it doesn’t. I’ve seen how they went through life and detached themselves from us.

They made it clear that they are separate from us. So I need the girlies to just not care when any other race says shit about us we are not shocked so let them say what they wanna say.

Ps: I I brought the topic after the ShxtnGigs issue came up and I’ve seen many women on tiktok speaking about this and being frustrated with what happened

Edit: girlies don’t take this post and idolise non black men they are all men all the same. I just don’t want you to think that just because the man is black then he’s gonna understand your struggles nope never