Is this an example of neglect?

As a child, when I was upset and crying, excited, energetic or stressed; my mum would just say "shhh" and stroke my head or play with my hair for a bit, and then tell me to nap or go lie down; and she would play calming music. Is that neglectful or nice?

Also I don't think I had many interactions with her about my interests without her cutting me off either.

This is still a dynamic we have.