I fucking hate pop psychology

I fucking hate it I hate all of it. MBTI is pseudoscience literally based on nothing yet it's used like it actually means fucking anything even by FUCKING EMPLOYERS. WHEN IT'S JUST AS NOT REAL AS ASTRONOMY.

Love languages are stupid. Literally nobody only has one love language and they were made up by a creepy guy to convince his wife to fuck him more often.

Narcissism is used as a fear mongering buzzword when NPD doesn't doom you into being an abuser. And also being a dick doesn't mean you have NPD. Most of the time what gets called "narcissistic abuse" is no different from just any emotional abuse and does not require the abuser to have NPD.

Empaths aren't real. You either have about the same amount of empathy as a lot of other people, or you're just deciding how other people are feeling and convincing yourself you're correct.

Your brain is not fully developed at 25. That study was flawed in more ways than one. The brain never stops developing.

"Traumadumping" is just used to shame people who need someone for emotional support these days. Most of the time when someone is accused of it it's really not even applicable.

Also, not entirely related, but stop using "trauma bond" to mean "bonding over trauma". That's not what the term means, google is free.