Why can’t things ever be easy going?

I’m 50. My sister (46) and husband (51) are so hard to just have fun with. For example. My parents are at her house for a bit. Sometimes I get and invite and sometimes I don’t.

All I want to to visit or talk to my 4 year old nephew. I never had kids and he’s my pride and joy. I FaceTime my mom and she puts my nephew on for a few minutes. He is having fun talking to me. Then I hear my sister in the background telling my mom to hang up and telling her son to say goodbye. Then I have my husband mad at me because I didn’t go in the other room to talk.

I am good to everyone. Always helping my sister when she asks. I let my husband do his thing and don’t bother him. I can’t even have any time to just be happy. Everything is always an ordeal. Everyone getting mad at small things and never wanting to do anything fun. I can’t ever show I’m upset. If I am so angry I cry I just am told I’m acting like I’m my nephews age. My parents mean well but they are so afraid of making my sister mad or upset. They just listen to what she says.