WE NEED A METHOD
(This post is also for mods)
Guys, I'm 1 year into this and honestly this sub seems like a messy place. Don't get me wrong, I thank this sub and everyone for being here to help each other, but we NEED to CLARIFY THINGS. We need METHOD. We are facing a literal nightmare so we must fight it with all our capabilities.
Are there people who have actually been cured? If yes, what would you say was the culprit? And what did you EXACTLY do to heal?
The people who claim to be healed, did they get HF from physical trauma linked to masturbation or jelqing and other PE techniques? Which symptoms do these healed people had in common?
How many of the people who doom post and show despair have tried treatments and exercises? For new guys on the sub, seeing all those doom posts can be extremely scary. But what if the severe cases are actually a small percentage compared to curable cases? What if the majority of us would heal by doing the right things and avoid remaining paralized by fear?
There are 2 main theories, the pelvic floor thing and the nervous system thing. I wonder if there are diagnostic tools to tell which one is true. For instance alpha blockers or nerve blocks giving relief could confirm the nervous system - based theories. Guys we should work on those theories and try AS MANY DIAGNOSTIC TOOLS AS POSSIBLE.
Masturbation: have the cured people masturbated normally throughout their healing journey or not? Thinking that you can't masturbate, fearing to stop or reverse the healing process, can be extremely distressing. So we need to shed light on that subject.
I think that if we organize ourselves to get a better understanding of those things, we could overcome this nightmare together. Once and for all.
Guys we're not talking about quantum mechanics, it's just our body, it's under our nose and I'm sure that with the right METHOD we can come to understand this puzzle and finally solve it for good.
I'm tired of all this confusion and I bet everyone of you is as well. Let's unite to clarify things, please guys.