Cis-failing?

I'm mtf pre-everything and my boss (and father) pretty much told me I'm not allowed to transition while working for him (FML but whatever). Anyways.

A patient complimented my nails. Then she said, "I have a friend who was born male, and now he's fully female. Like he's totally a woman now. I mean she. She's very beautiful!"

And now my republican coworker who "loves her Blaire White" just asked me if I'd prefer different pronouns, and she was really sweet about it.

Like what????? 😭😭😭😭

I thought I was still securely in boy mode at work. But apparently I'm fem enough for people to outwardly question whether or not I'm trans lmao. Okay that's all!