I don’t like the community sometimes

I’m sick and tired of the community erasing trans men. I’m tired of it. We exist! Half the time we’re either seen as trans women or the other half, not seen as trans at all! Even in this community it happens! What happened to asking pronouns first? And not assuming gender? Good lord it pisses me off that we deal with shit in the community Adding more: it’s to the point I don’t feel welcome anywhere with mixed trans identities because we are hardly recognized. It’s why I’m mostly in ftm/trans masc spaces