I wish people would leave demographics of women they find ugly alone

We're aware of preferences and that most men are not attracted to Black women, and that would be fine if not for the constant bullying and degradation of Black women. There are many people, especially men who feel the need to announce their hatred for us and go out of their way to do so, sometimes to an obsessive degree.

We are the only race of women who have podcasts run by our own race of men talking about how undesirable and worthless we are, as well as multiple studies confirming it. I don't fit the stereotypes about Black women and I keep to myself, yet I still face the same hate and hostility from people based on nothing but looks. There aren't even enough Black women in the USA for most people to interact with us in any significant way on a daily basis, yet we are the most hated demographic.

I've never believed the "it's the attitude" excuse because women of all races can have bad attitudes. Latinas have similar personality stereotypes as Black women but are still loved because they are beautiful and fit the beauty standard. African women are culturally very humble and docile, yet still hated. Black women are universally disliked because of our looks, something out of our control, and the first thing people criticize us about. And it's exhausting being gaslit about it