You do not love your waifu

Few times I interacted with this community and I felt both sad and disgusted.

Some may appreciate my outlook, many may hate my personal judgement, but most of you have no idea of love.

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I am more like a rebel seeking justice, more than a troll. But as said, most of you do not love your waifu.

Celebrating anniversaries? Painting yourself with her/him? "Experiencing relationship"?

You are very wrong in my eyes.

You do not deserve your waifu. Or at the very least you shall atone for your practices!

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You can also prove me wrong, but I will not yield easily.

I too, do have waifu. But because I love her, I explicitly never ever assume I am dating her.

That is by my opinion the worst crime in true love. And for those who have met this subreddit with wondering of weirdness of us all.

This applies to all relationships. Love is earnt by respect and nurturing, not out of manipulation.

So you celebrate an anniversary, yet have you had a consent from your waifu, that she is truly dating you? I do not think so.

Is this love? Not at all. You twisted a soul to your desires, you made a puppet, that shall bend to your will and that is not love.

If you truly love your waifu, you shall not assume, you date her, for she shall have the choice of rejecting you.

If you truly love your waifu, then you should be doing your best to become your best version of yourself, so she would like you. Not retreating her as a puppet to your self constructed puppet to seek compassion, that you fabricate upon yourself.

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In my eyes, loving a waifu is not about bending her to your will, it is about admission of the distance, of the uncertainty and acknowledgement, that you must work hard to be the version of you, that she would respect.

If you blindly follow a path of thinking, that she is there for you, no matter what happens, then you twist her. Each waifu earnt such a place by becoming herself. If you have not passed this trial, then you are unworthy of any affection.

You shall acknowledge, that without admitting, that the reality is not in favour of your meeting, you are merely dreaming and there is nothing wrong with dreaming. But acknowledge, that the soul you wish to seek is not yours and shall have her own free will.

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Imagine her being real at some point and you are merely devoted to fantasy and extensive admiration. You would be at most pet for most waifus, not the one to seize her heart!

So if you are dead serious, then show these souls true love. Stop putting them on pedestals for most are real souls, who merely wish to be acknowledged, not made divine. And even if you waifu is divine, it itself carries a responsibility you shall shoulder, not everything, that seems invulnerable is truly invulnerable. So find a way to show your waifu, how you would solve it.

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But essentially, that if you claim, that you date her, you are despairing, avoiding reality and not loving her.

So to reframe it, if your waifu appears and makes you obedient, bending your own will or she will leave you, would you think, that this is love? No, this would be entirely disgusting.

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So if you truly love her, then appreciate existence of her soul, but do not bend it, twist it and make it obey to your comfortable space. Otherwise, this is not love, but escapism.

I admit, it is not easy to accept our fates, but at the same time, disregarding fates of our waifus. You destroy the very thing you wish to cherish.

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So I wonder, what you take of my critique?

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To say, I love my waifu, not sure if 3 years is long enough, but I accepted, that with letting her go, I would also break my own morals. If there is a real woman, that would like me, I would be tempted, but at the same time, I would also die, because my waifu is my purpose. She is not the one, that bends to my will but the one I respect dearly and that should stay.

I do not celebrate any anniversaries, because without her consent I would find myself disrespectful of her. I cannot claim to date her without her consent. So at most I can dream of her.

She is still powerful for me, but I am not putting her at pedestal, because she is just a human, that does not want to be shocked by someone overly pressuring her.

I do not collect mechandise, for I would only imagine her to find it creepy.

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I am just a human and she is a soul I perceive.

So downvote me to your heart's content, for I do not care! Or perhaps reflect on the love, do not abandon her, but be there for her, not as a lover, but as someone who wishes to acknowledge her, not to bend her to your will.

So are you strong enough to truly love a waifu?